1)
In the Mating Game it's the Women Who Choose the Men, not vice-versa
"Men get rejected most often when they fail to get a GO signal from a woman FIRST before approaching her in a romantic, man-woman context.
Society's illusion would have you believe that men control the game of Seduction.
They do NOT."
2) A Mans' Demeanor Reveals His Status... Among Other Men
"High status males can act Gentle and Friendly because they have nothing to prove, whereas low status males are often
Mean, Sarcastic and Cruel. The more nasty the man, the lower his status among other men."
3) Your Perceived Rating on the Male Dominance Scale is the Sole Determinant of your Attractiveness to Women...
Period!
"Women do not grade men on their looks in the same way that men rate women... you are graded on where you appear to rank among other males in terms of socio-economic status.
Lucky for you, this can be faked far more easily than physical ugliness can be hidden..."
4) Assuming is the Key to the Dominant Male Attitude
"What you Assume to be True makes a vastly more powerful statement than anything you could ever say with mere words.
You cannot hide your assumptions since your actions and behaviors are all based upon them."
5) Men Must Always Be the Ones to Initiate:
A) The First Words, and
B) The First Kiss
"The male role in the "Dance of Seduction" is actually rather limited... since most of it is controlled by the woman – but these two crucial actions must originate from the man because they act as
non-verbal signatures of his male prowess that a woman must
be able to witness before she can submit to him sexually."
6) The Best Way to Communicate With a Woman is Through
Other Women
"The most effective way to communicate your feelings, interests and social-relationship beliefs to any woman is via a female proxy in the form of her girlfriends and / or other female associates.
Harness their willingness to gossip"
7) The Partner with the
Least Interest in a Relationship Controls the relationship
"The only kind of relationship that can stand the test of time is one in which the partners both love and respect each other equally.
Balance is the key. Resentments and revulsion ultimately grow from
rigid dominant - submissive roles"
Mike Pilinski is the author of "Without Embarrassment: The
Social Coward's Totally Fearless Seduction System"... a unique
method of meeting girls that will have you making up for wasted
time spent living in shy-guy hell from the very first moment you
test it out. Check it Out Here => High Status Male
I suppose I could have titled this article "Why Do Women Show
Absolutely No Romantic Interest In A Nice Guy (Like Me) Even
Though They All Claim To Want To Meet A Nice Guy (Like Me)?"
Whew! Well, maybe not. It sure is tempting though -- because
in my unexpected career as the internet's new "Dear Mr. Abby",
I've gotten some basic form of that question many times over in
the past few months, and I'm getting sick of it. So in the interest
of suppressing my e-mail a little bit, let me show you my theory
of why it is that nice guys are scorned by women everywhere,
and how to get around this social handicap without having to take
night courses in "How to be a Jerk" at your local community
college (although I hear they ARE a great place to meet sexy
young women... ;-)
I'm sure you know the infuriating mantra that you've heard time
and again from women --either in person or on all these stupid
afternoon talk shows: "...But Oprah, there's no one to date out
there, all the guys are all such jerks and losers. I just want to
meet a nice guy..." Oh how they love to whine.
Well if you consider yourself to be the "nice guy" these women
swear they're looking for, but you strike-out with all but the very
lowest end of the female food chain anyway, then you know what
royal bull**** this declaration really is. Nonetheless -- despite
the fact that most of the feral women (18-35) actually date &
screw the drunken lowlifes and pricks they claim to hate -- they
seem determined to drill it into our heads that this happens
ONLY because the right "nice guy" hasn't come-a-stumbln' into
their life yet. Rrrrr-ight.
Ok, here's what's REALLY going on. As usual, women are
talking in code. (They are famous for this).
When women imagine "nice guys" in their minds, what they're
really dreaming about is a guy who makes them feel SAFE... but
in a very *special* sort of way that preserves his male sexual
attractiveness. Actually, this is not very mysterious when you
think about it from the *female* perspective. To a woman, a
safe guy means ONLY that you're physically harmless -- nothing
more. In terms of what you could do to her emotions, well...
that's a different story.
This blend of hot n' cold, exciting n' boring, safe n' dangerous is
what she is REALLY searching for -- this is what she *lives* for.
It's what she thinks of as having 'chemistry' with a guy.
The problem with being overtly nice or lap-doggishly friendly and
accommodating with women is that it communicates the worse
kind of SUBLIMINAL message to them. (P.S. Everything
IMPORTANT that goes on between men and women in the early
stages of all romantic-sexual encounters is always
communicated NON-verbally. Words may be the power tools of
seduction -- but it's what you DON'T actually say with words that
will make or break you!). Anyway, this lousy subliminal
messaging is the key to why nice guys rarely get laid.
Here's why:
'Nice-guy' behavior is NOT something that women see you as
"switching on" in their presence like some well-meaning but
fumbled attempt to impress them. Instead, they believe that
you've been TRAINED (yes, like a f***ing dog) by other, *more
powerful* men in your world to act this way!
In other words, 'nice guy' is how subservient men have learned
to act in the presence of stronger men in order to protect
themselves from harm ("I am no threat to your status as the
more dominant male... please don't hurt me... let me be your
harmless, lovable side-kick..."). To women, then, "niceness" is a
screaming red flashing signal of LOW MALE STATUS, and
therefore...
...it is an ENORMOUS TURN OFF to them!
This is why they can't develop any sexual energy (i.e., chemistry)
with nice guys, and with good reason. Nature has hardwired the
female brain to seek out the most powerful male to mate with in
order to produce the strongest offspring with the best chance to
survive. It's the same reason why men have been hardwired to
chase after women who display physical signs of youthfulness
(because youthfulness = reproductive success, or viewed the
other way around... old ladies = reproductive failure... i.e., no
eggs left in the carton, to put it bluntly). While male and female
ACTIONS may be completely different, their GOALS remain the
same -- strong healthy babies to carry forth the species. This
is so because "maleness" and "femaleness" are really just two
different but complimentary STRATEGIES for reproduction -- and
men and women are compelled to behave differently in order to
executed these dissimilar strategies on one another.
You see, Nature doesn't care about hurting people's feelings -- it
cares ONLY about reproductive success in order to keep those
precious DNA molecules traveling forward in Time. The dance
of mating & seduction -- in all creatures -- is linked inseparably to
this biological imperative. Go against it and you're flying in the
face of millions of years of evolution (or maybe its design, who
knows?). Learn to play by it's rules... and you will win!
* * *
Anyway, being the correct sort of nice guy to women really only
means being someone who is A) safe, and B) a guy that she
would NOT be embarrassed to show off to her family or close
(judgmental) friends. Understand that there's a lot of latitude in
there between a kiss-ass wimp and a complete psycho. Your
job is to find that happy middle.
* * *
Alright, some practical application of theory. It's difficult to
describe exactly how to go about handling the issue of being a
nice guy, but here's my best try...
You never want to ACT like a nice guy around women, but...
...you always want to SEEM like one.
Can you get a sense of what I'm trying to say here? The
problem with being nice is TRYING to be nice, instead of just
LETTING it happen. You can't come across as an *obvious* a
nice guy -- you just have to drop enough hints around women so
that you SEEM like one. Never, *EVER* broadcast your nice guy
potential to women like it's something that you're proud of!
Yeeesh!
Here's a few examples of what I mean:
1) When you first meet a woman that you're attracted to, you
must establish a NON-verbal line of communication in a way that
provokes stirrings of instinctual mating thoughts in her
subconscious "deep" brain. In other words, you need to
transmit your interest in her in a man-woman sexual-potential
way *without* actually speaking any words to that effect! Nice
trick, eh? Actually it's easy... two ways in which you can do this
are with extended eye contact and brief, non-offensive touches.
Both casual, but unmistakable in their true meaning to her.
2) Drop HINTS about you're capacity to be a nice guy, but don't
demonstrate it -- otherwise you will come off like a complete
kiss-ass. Do this by A) slipping in suggestions of having strong
family-friends relationships in your life (a sign to women that
you're "connected & normal"), or B) that you have something
exciting going on in your life -- either at work, as a hobby, or
perhaps a recent adventure of some kind.
Here's an example from my own experiences. I used to work for
a photography company. Sounds exciting, eh? Not really. The
amount of time I spent with a camera in my hand was less than
5% of the total time I was there. I mostly did boring lab work and
mechanical "McGuiver" tricks to keep a lot of old, over-used
equipment up and running. But maybe a half dozen to 20 times
a year, I got to fly around in light planes shooting aerial pictures
around the Western New York area for various commercial
clients.
So when I'm chatting up a girl, sometimes I'll work in a quick little
anecdote that's drawn from one of my old flying jobs. Like how
the snowpack collecting on Lake Erie forms such beautifully
colored cracks in the greenish ice sheets during the height of
mid-winter. But I make nothing more of it, all very nonchalant...
and I DON'T fully explain how I came into the position of flying
around the area and making such an observation in the first
place. Is it through work? A hobby?... What am I involved in
that would give me an opportunity to view this natural wonder?
Business travel? What?
She's at least a little bit curious about me now, but she's not
comfortable asking questions since I've just rolled over the
subject quickly and she doesn't really know me well enough yet.
Besides, (and this is important to understand) she LIKES not
knowing! Mystery! Intrigue! I've suggested to her in an off-hand
way that I'm a productive guy (safe & normal) who's into
SOMETHING that's kind of fascinating and possibly making me
good money -- but without revealing too much about what it is,
and especially NOT explaining every last detail in the droll,
somewhat braggartly way that is the hallmark of the boring-as-
hell nice guy.
You can drop hints about family ("connections", i.e. I'm not a
lonely, desperate hermit) or whatever in a similar manner to
show her that you're an okay (nice?) guy without piercing the
delicate bubble of MYSTERY that must envelope every
seduction.
Now you're "in like Flynn" in terms of getting your foot in the door
to her heart (this is only Step 1 remember). Why? Because
she's made the determination in her *subconscious* mind
(where it really counts) that you "seem" like a nice guy beneath
an otherwise dominant male presentation of yourself, and that
piques her interest immensely.
You are a rare encounter in the universe of men that breaks
down into either sappy, boring "nice guys" or worthless (but,
alas, exciting) pricks. Your stock has gone up at the moment it
matters most... that make or break moment OF FIRST
ENCOUNTER. No matter what "flaws" you might otherwise
imagine yourself to have, you have become interesting to her in a
way that AT LEAST she'll never categorize as friggin' "nice".
NOW you have a shot!
And you can move on to Seduction Steps 2, 3, 4, etc. with the
confidence of a High Status Male!
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Judging from my mail lately, it seems that using a pick up line to meet women has
become the most highly sought after Holy Grail in the entire Seduction Universe.
You know what I'm talking about... that "underground" of guys who are on
a quest to figure out a way to forcefully re-focus the romantic attention of women on
themselves wherever, and whenever, they choose to... all with the use of
a single most wondrous, fantastically glib pick up line? Maybe you were
considering the application of a few gems like these yourself?...
"Do you believe in Love at first sight honey... or do I have to walk by again?"
"Baby, your body's like Visa... it's everywhere I want to be!"
"Honey you must be Jamaican... because Ja makin' me crazy!"
"If I could rewrite the alphabet, I would put U and I together."
"Are you from Tennessee?... because you're the only "Ten" I see!"
"Baby that dress you're wearing would look great on my bedroom floor."
"Let's work on your math skills... We can add a bed, subtract the clothes,
divide your legs and multiply! "
"Is that a keg in your pants sweetheart?... 'cause I'd love to tap that ass!"
Yeah, right..
Well, you got any brilliant ideas?... my tank is empty
I'm afraid.
Still, I get more mail from guys who plead with me if I would just... "please
provide me with that one perfect pick up line that can cast women into a hypnotic love-spell..." more than anything else.
I disappoint time and again when I confess that I simply don't have anything to offer.
That's not what the High Status Male methods outlined in my book are all about.
I don't slide up to strange women in clubs and pubs, slip them my "magical mystical pick up
line", and lead the helplessly hypnotized honeys away for a night of wall banging sex.
If one of you guys out there knows of such a mind-altering pick-up line -- then e-mail it to me
immediately because I need to try it out for myself mailto:mikepil@highstatusmale.com
. I won't even tell anyone else what it is if you want to keep it a secret... promise.
I float this challenge confident that it will never be met because I don't think anyone has perfected such a standardized and easily
canned approach to meeting women. Simply because it's NOT possible.
How can you possibly come up with some perfect... something to say to
a woman that would take into account every imaginable variable that
exists between men and women?
One that would account for differences in personality, pre-conceived notions of proper social behavior, current life phase and relationship situation, hormonal balance, religious beliefs, level of emotional pre-occupation, physical self-view, social conditioning, and current mood?
Not to mention just how her unconscious mind might respond merely to seeing your face!
Do you remind her subconsciously of that guy in grammar school she
always had a huge crush on or even dreamed of marrying?
Or are you a pattern match for Mr. Right? Mr. Right Now?
Or Mr. Serial-abusing Stepdad?
Understand that your ability to "pick up" women has very little to do with any magical opening words that you can utter (other that a simple hello and a subdued smile), and
EVERYTHING to do with your magical opening attitude.
Women are highly emotional creatures -- far more so than men (except for those of you so desperate to get laid that you emit the repellant stench of desperation).
They want to witness your potential to create emotion in them. Women are not impressed with a man's words so much as
they are with his male display. Male display?
By that I mean the certain mixture of qualities and characteristics which broadcast a signal to women that a man has achieved a degree of respect (and perhaps even dominance)
OVER HIS FELLOW MEN.
This "air" is held fast in the way a guy carries himself. More than anything else, this unspoken aura can set a woman's heart aflame
EVEN AGAINST HER WISHES.
It does so because it taps into an ancient instinct buried far within the recesses of her subconscious psyche --
one that tells her when it's time to mate.
You see, humans are sent "into heat" by the cues they get from their higher intellect -- NOT by simple chemical signals like most lesser animals.
When humans -- men and women -- sense certain audio-visual-olfactory signals coming from a nearby member of the opposite sex that match a specific pattern suggesting a high probability of reproductive success
(i.e. youth in women, strength in men), their "old" hindbrains are automatically
conditioned to prepare for the possibility of mating.
It must be so -- humans would not have survived for this long otherwise.
Reproduction, along with survival, is the Prime Directive of every lifeform.
That doesn't mean these urges can't be suppressed by our thinking minds however, and most often they are.
We don't go around recklessly humping one another like maniacs at the merest suggestion of an opportunity.
We are civilized. Controlled.
Well -- perhaps we're controlled only in the sense that our actions are limited by our own highly developed (and uniquely human) sense of
shame.
Shame is a vivid emotional force within all of us that sets a boundary defining the limits of what we can accomplish.
The weight of the shame we carry can be sensed almost immediately as the underlying driving force that lurks behind all of our actions,
almost like an off-stage puppet master.
It's shape is formed from the sum of all our life experiences, and especially by how we've responded to them by creating
self defeating behaviors (or not).
When it comes to our ability to meet women, male shame can really get in the way.
Shame about our weakened position among the hierarchy of other males surrounding us.
Shame creates fear, and fear is the marker of the low status male -- the man who has been beaten and put in his place
by other men.
When she senses your fear, it makes her uncomfortable and she wants to draw away from you immediately.
If you reach out and touch her timidly... fearfully, it will make your touch seem unpleasant and
even creepy.
The High Status Male, on the other hand, acts with a confidence that seems (but isn't necessarily) devoid of fear.
Even if you can fake the illusion of the HSM, you can make yourself seem enticing instead of disturbing.
It is worth all your effort.
Meet Women...
In a kind of role reversal to using a pick up line to meet
women, women were asked just what would constitute a classy pick up action
by a man.
One quote stood out from all the others... "a man who seems like he's lived a little will always capture my interest..."
There it is guys, right in a nutshell... women want a man who seems like he's
LIVED.
When you've accumulated a resume of real experiences in your life -- career, social, emotional, romantic and physical -- it shows through in a way that, not only is somehow sensed by every woman that matters, but done so in mere
moments of first encountering you.
It's in your attitude, the way you conduct yourself, the cut of your clothes or how casually you wear them... the gleam in your eye.
All these factors act together to "throw off" the best pick up line there can possibly be: the
NON-VERBAL one.
Yes that's right, non-verbal. The way to reduce your fear of rejection is to remove from your mind the enormous pressure to perform in the face of uncertainty.
You do this by perfecting your Male Display to signal women around you that you are a man with a life's purpose -- that you are centered and able to deliver on the kind of emotions that all women desire from their romantic involvements... in a word, you are a man who's lived a
little!
And it shows. Now let the women begin to signal back their interest in
you, and you'll find yourself able to take action with an ease that is astonishing.
The idea that you are going to walk up to some great looking woman,
reeking of low male status, and stammer out some magical "pick up line"
(that you read in a book somewhere) that will somehow force her to overlook the
fountain of deadly negative vibes you are otherwise broadcasting is flat out
ridiculous.
Understand that there is no such magic. Women are not stupid (not the ones we're most interested in, anyway) -- they can see who you are.
You cannot compensate for a lifetime of letting your Male Display atrophy away (or for never having developed one in the first place) with
some string of impossibly clever words.
There is only one way that using a pick up line to meet women can have any real chance for you, and that's when it's delivered from a platform of
glimmering male lifeforce.
This power doesn't come naturally to every man -- but it is
a developed skill like any other that can be learned merely by observing how it's accomplished by the best among
us. And mimicking their ways.
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If the sad old
"pick up line method" of trying to meet women hasn't been working for you, why not take a look at
Without Embarrassment: The Social Coward's Totally Fearless Seduction System and discover how -- by simply learning how to
seem like the kind of guy that women love to love (i.e.
the High Status Male) -- your romantic luck can change almost like magic overnight.
Except that it won't be "luck" from
now on!
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"Eight Characteristics that Give a Man the Absolute Best
Chance to Score With Women"
For a man, successfully meeting women is all about how you
ACT. Period. Sure, you have to look halfway decent in the way
you dress, stay groomed and not stink like the chunk of two
month old polish sausage that I just found hiding in the back of
my refrigerator the other day... but the make-or-break factor is
and always will be the WORDS that come out of your mouth,
and the ATTITUDE that underlies it.
With that in mind, here's eight points to load into your mental
backpack when you're getting ready to go off to battle (which is
to say, every day of your life...)
1) Remain Focused on the Game -- The art of attracting women
is all about knowing how to engage them with a natural curiosity
that shows you are at least a little bit interested in *their* world
(WARNING: too much = a slick phoney, so be careful). Look for
LifeLines (anything that she's hinting she would be open to
talking about) and stay committed to working them. Forget
about yourself. Fade out your own ego. There'll be plenty of
time in the future to gab about your own amazing life.
Remember this: you are NEVER desperately looking for an "ear
to bend" -- you are always looking to draw HER out instead.
Only those lost souls with limited social contact hungrily crave
the attention of any person they can corner into listening to their
non-stop yabbering (I'm not trying to sound cruel here, just
honest).
Tune out the surrounding world and focus in on her as if you
were the only two people in the universe. If done properly
(without any subservient whimpering), this kind of attention is
flattering to her in an almost breathtakingly way.
2) Stay Calm -- Above all else, act like you're familiar with this
whole process. Seduction always begins as a low pressure
event. Place her at ease with your laid back demeanor, and let
her slowly begin to feed off of it. Be a lighthearted flirt. Don't be
obvious -- keep your interest vague so as to give everyone an
"out" to protect all egos involved (both yours and hers). She will
appreciate your tactful approach immensely, and be impressed
with your consideration and charm.
3) Demonstrate Charisma (Likability) -- Sometime during the
course of the evening, offer a single simple compliment about
something unique to her style and presentation about herself.
No canned "You have such beautiful eyes..." compliments.
Don't go overboard or make a big deal about ANY compliments
that you pay her. Make them seem casual and unplanned (a
sudden pleasant thought that just popped into your head and
slipped out before you could stop it...), then IMMEDIATELY move
on to other topics. Trust me, she heard it.
4) Touch Her To Seduce Her -- Use any excuse you can dream
up to get a hand on her. Of course I mean only in the
appropriate places... an arm, shoulder, a hair brushback.
Do not grope her like a desperate fool. Touch is extremely
important because it demonstrates a sexual, "manly" interest in
her and keeps you away from the deadly "nice-guy-friend"
category. Just make sure you always keep it classy.
5) Risk Taking Is A Turn-On -- Take a chance... a bold
comment, break the speed limit, whatever... Stay unpredictable
and keep her a little off balance. Men are powerful and at ease
with themselves , right? (see item #2...)
6) Be A Man, Not A Boy -- Keep your apartment styled in a
mature fashion -- avoid the frat-house look even though your
football buddies will probably declare you a big puss. A few
REAL house plants (the kind you actually have to water...
yee-gads!), and dark solids everywhere. A few *paintings*
(don't spend a fortune, just hit the flea markets) instead of the
Pam Anderson poster. Got it? Also (very important) junk the
"bunk" and get yourself a double-sized bed (because you
entertain female company from time to time, that's why)
Time to bury the Star Wars bed sheets too. Keep a few bottles
of wine in stock and the kind of goodies hiding around the house
that a girl would like (popcorn, cheese, ice cream, etc.) for when
you want to veg out in front of the tube and get her loosened up.
7) Nurture The Trance Of Romance -- Take her out to see a
mushy chick flick by surprise... make a dinner and light a silly
candle on a "spontaneous" whim (nothing is spontaneous to a
real Seducer...). Do the things that trigger those romantic
thoughts and dreams that attract women naturally by pulling up
all their fuzziest memories. You'll score major points for
creativity!
8) Project The Attitude Of The High Status Male -- You must
NEVER allow yourself to act like a fawning "nice guy"... but you
always want to SEEM like one (for an in-depth examination of
this all-important topic read this free article on my site... http://www.highstatusmale.com/article_015.htm ). Imagine you
have a harem waiting for you back home, and you're trying to
determine if she would make a nice new addition. I'm serious.
This is the kind of unspoken "winners" attitude that you must
keep burning in the far recesses of your mind at all times when
you're dating women.
Assume that she likes you and will respond favorably to your
charm, but never assume you have a green light to start telling
fart jokes or break into your full blown comedy club routine.
Humor is all about the CLEVER observation of the absurdities of
everyday life -- not the repeating of dumb jokes you read in
Hustler or doing your lame celebrity impressions... ("Do I make
you horny baby?") That's why they call it a SENSE of humor...
you need to base your wit on what you *sense* to be going on
around you, which often lies beneath the obvious.
So there you have it. Try a few of these attitude adjustments for
yourself -- maybe just as an experiment if you can't face the idea
of actually changing anything permanently about yourself. Let
me know what happens.
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WANT you to act, and become the High Status Male they
dream about. Stop by and get your FREE 25 page Mini-Course
"The Three Keys To Seducing Any Woman", and lots more.
>>>> Official Author's Website <<<<
Click Here => http://www.highstatusmale.com
If you're a single guy still looking for your dream POA (piece of
ass), I'm sure you've absorbed lots of advice on how best to
meet and date women by now. A lot of it is "common sensical"
as you well know. Therefore, assuming you know enough not to
show up on a first date looking like you just combed your hair
with an M-80 or wearing cowboy boots and shorts, maybe a few
of the following ideas can give you just enough of an edge to
make the difference between Date #2 with an exciting little fox --
and a date with ol' Rosie Palm instead. Check these out :
1 ) Don't Try To Act Like A Fake On The First Date
A woman often makes a far more profound emotional investment
into a relationship than a man does. So for her, TRUST is an
immensely important issue. Dating is not just a convenient way
to get her rocks off, it's a case study in the male psyche. Can
she trust you to ever be a good future father? Don't laugh,
unless she's middle-aged and well beyond the kids & husband
phase of her life, this "mating calculus" is ALWAYS running
somewhere in the back of her mind.
Acting like a phoney with an obviously fake 'come-on' personality
only demonstrates how easily you are willing to embrace
deception in order to get something you want. To any woman
other than the sad exception of the chick who's looking for
another loser for her next AA reclamation project (maybe 10% to
15% of the female population), you are TOTAL POISON. A
potential cheater and heartbreaker just waiting for his next victim
to arrive. She may dump you right away, OR depending on the
depth of her general bitterness towards men, keep you around to
engage in a little recreational tease and torturing if she's got a
vendetta to settle with a guy like you. Beware!
2 ) Create New Memories Instead Of Swapping Them
Here's the very best dating advice I can ever give anyone: in
order to make any date memorable and fun, spend 90% of your
activities in the present moment.
It's easy to get caught up in the "talking trap" on a date -- where
the two of you sit around and get lost in deeper and deeper
conversation. These 'chatting dates' can slip out of control and
become subtle passion-killers though, especially if you're not
careful to keep the big picture in focus. Before you know it,
you're spilling your guts about Father Hamhands from your altar
boy days or waxing poetic about your hemorrhoids and how they
love to swell up in the springtime. Yeesh. As Joey from the TV
show Friends once scolded his buddy Chandler, "... ok, that's
TOO MUCH information!..."
For a seduction to go off like a thing of beauty, you must reveal
yourself SLOWLY -- bit-by-bit -- as you gradually come to know
her. Think of dating as an emotional veil dance... a striptease --
the point of which is to make her anticipate when the next Veil of
Male Mystery will come off! This is the kind of thing she's been
DREAMING about all her life. Why? Because it makes
everything that's to follow (including the sex) all that much more
delicious for her.
So put ACTION ahead of endless yakking. Stay active on a date
(it doesn't have to be an extreme sport-fest or anything, just
visiting a flea market will do...) so that you are BUILDING a
memory with her instead of SHARING one. Focus on having
experiences with her that the two of you can reminisce about
some day in the future -- instead of spending time caught up in a
lot of drawn-out amateur psychotherapy sessions in a bar
somewhere. Conversation is very important in any new
relationship, and is the pathway to her eventual sexual surrender,
but you must provide her with a REASON to want to know so
much about you *FIRST* before opening your soul. Never forget
the importance of your veil dance.
3 ) Don't Be A Bore
A boring person is anti-charismatic -- which is to say that,
instead of making people feel GOOD about themselves by acting
interested in them, the boring person makes us want to run away
screaming from the agony of having to listen to another second
of his self-absorbed droning!
The point of conversation should always be focused on drawing
HER interests out instead of dwelling on your own (but don't
come across like a ruthless Nazi interrogator -- go easy on the
unbroken string of questions). Share a little -- but keep YOUR
interests lost in the background. Her response to a few casual
queries about her life or current dreams holds clues to your
*LifeLine*. Cling to it tightly and work on expanding its scope.
Submerge your own ego for the first few dates. Don't worry,
when you finally hook her she'll begin questioning you intently...
maybe TOO intently! But that probably won't happen until after
you've had sex. (Then get ready for the onslaught!)
4 ) Forget About Trying To Act "Like Yourself"
The standard dating advice of "being yourself" or "acting like
yourself" (whatever the hell that means) is pure "Oprah-istic"
B.S.
Learn to strike a balance between coming on like a phoney-
baloney (which we talked about earlier), and seeming too safe
and friendly. Seduction is a delicate bubble that can be burst
with increasingly less effort as it ripens. A first date is NOT the
place to remain in the role of your everyday average old sort of
guy... that's spells B-O-R-I-N-G. A spark must be present to
ignite the *fires of desire* in the old primal portion of her brain.
So that means you have to be EXCITED to be out with her!
When you think about it, it should be easy to get juiced up...
dating someone for the very first time is not something that
happens every day in anyone's life. Face it, ordinary life sucks.
Romance is a fantasy voyage, an escape from the 9 to 5 daily
drudgery of work, etc. Treat this rare event for what it is...
something unique, unrepeatable and potentially unforgettable.
Even if she seems too cool to care, trust me... her romance
motor is humming along in high gear.
5 ) Five Minutes Of Nerves Is Normal, Then Calm Down
After some initial awkwardness due to understandable jitters, you
should be able to calm down and hit your stride. If you have a
real problem controlling automatic body reactions to
nervousness (bad sweating, stuttering, facial twitching, etc.) my
best advice is to get a book on yoga and practice it WITH AN
OPEN MIND. You don't have to go nuts and join the Green Party
or anything, but DO try some of the deep breathing and
relaxation techniques. They really work and can give you the
self-control edge you might need. This will project through in
your attitude as a cool confidence that is the unmistakable sign
of a High Status Male!
Learn to always keep your movements around the women you're
trying to seduce graceful and deliberate like a snake charmer.
Modulate your voice in a throaty style (lowered volume) and keep
the tone of your words sounding a little bit "conspiratorial"
(without going overboard and making a fool of yourself).
A squeaky voice spells fear and sounds adolescent, so strive to
keep it in check. Be self-aware.
6 ) Obsession Is The Hallmark Of The Weak Male
Dominant males will show an interest in any attractive woman
they encounter because they are highly sexually driven. But --
because they have many options with females open to them --
they do NOT act obsessive about any *particular* woman. So
don't be obsessed with her... just be interested. Proclaiming
ridiculously inappropriate nonsense like "...I love you" or "You're
the girl I've been searching for my whole life..." on a first or
second date is the frightening talk of the potential stalker. You
become RADIOACTIVE to women once word of your engaging in
this kind of bizarre behavior spreads. And it will spread...
women gossip like demons. So chill the subservient groveling
and act like you've been down the dating & mating road a few
times already.
7 ) No Matter What Happens, Assume She Likes You... and
Believe It
I'm not kidding here... this is an essential Jedi mind trick that you
MUST somehow learn to play on yourself. Simply ASSUME that
any woman you're working will *always* like you -- and do
whatever the hell it takes to sell this idea to your unconscious
mind! Women can become mesmerized by men who seem to
be captivated by them. But this kind of 'vibe' can only shine
through your body language if it's GENUINE -- and for that to
happen, you have to believe that she will respond favorably to
you... *no matter what*.
Remember... ATTITUDE + UNCONSCIOUS BELIEFS = THE
TRUTH. Your attitude is a naked expression of your
unconscious beliefs about yourself. Therefore, it is interpreted
BY OTHERS as revealing the absolute truth about you... whether
YOU like it or not. Control the self-image that you project to the
world by pushing the crappy beliefs about yourself out of your
brain, and replace them with empowering ones that will advance
your own personal 'cause' for a change. Strive to deliberately
manipulate this critical part of your consciousness, and watch
your world change before your eyes like magic.
Before long, you'll soon have your pick of all the best looking
women in YOUR world!
=========================================
Mike Pilinski is the author of "Without Embarrassment", a new
e-book designed to show men how to develop unique
psychological defenses to protect themselves from ever having
to fear being rejected again. Visit
http://www.highstatusmale.com
and pick up a FREE copy of the 25 page Mini-Course "The Three
Keys to Seducing Any Woman" **Official Author's Website**
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"Men: When it comes to the
Dating Game, are you 'playing with scared money'?"
I have a friend who's a big time gambler -- horses and sports
book mostly, but he'll take a flyer out to a casino and burn up a
crap table once in a while. His playful lifestyle has given him a
unique view of reality. Here's what he told me about betting and
risking: He said that the absolute worse way to approach any
game of chance was to go in with a pre-set maximum limit in
your mind of just how much money you are willing to lose.
"I'm only gonna bet $50 -- if I lose it, forget it... I'm done.
This way I can only lose a maximum of $50! Smart guy, eh?
That's not so bad, right?..."
Notice how much energy is expended deciding how best to
protect your money -- while little consideration is given to doing
whatever it takes to actually WIN? This is a classic loser's
mentality, not the "smart guy" style of play. Why? Because it's
an overriding play 'strategy' (and I use this term loosely) that's
based upon the assumption that you will probably LOSE no
matter how events ultimately unfold. There is NO consideration
given as to how you're going to win -- because in the deepest
recesses of your mind you do not accept that winning is really
possible. Oh sure you might've chalked up the rare victory here
and there along the way, but in the long run you will always
somehow end up the loser (you think). So the "Big Overriding
Idea" then becomes to protect yourself against any serious
losses.
My buddy calls this Playing with "Scared Money".
And he
has another saying too...
SCARED MONEY ALWAYS LOSES!
Timidly, you lay down your bet and the House sweeps it
away. Bye bye, jackass. See ya again when you have another
$50 bucks for me to cleave off your wallet. It never fails. There
is just no way to play the game of life in a half-assed protective
manner and ever make any real progress. The "I'm-not-going-
to-take-any-risks" approach to life is a formula for abject failure.
Plain and simple. Nature seems to abhor it, and ensures that all
its practitioners are gleefully punished with unending failure and
frustration.
The *successful* gambler -- by contrast -- always remains
focused on WINNING, and keeps punching through his losses
with a bulldog determination until he gets there. The way my
friend describes the process must seem terrifying to the risk
adverse... if you lose $50, you bet $100 next time. Lose that,
and now you bet $200. Next time, $400. The idea is to keep
doubling your bet so that when you finally DO win it will more
than cover your previous losses. Yikes!
You see, the confident, ballsy gambler has to keep pushing
harder and harder into his losing streak with steely nerves,
knowing that a WIN for him is out there eventually. His only fear
is that he goes completely bankrupt before reaching it. But if he
does bust out, well...
...there's always next time!
Lots of guys approach the game of love and romance in a
similar fashion to the timid gambler. Their "Big Overriding Idea"
is to protect their EGO (their "bet") at all costs -- and that cost
usually turns out to be complete failure to meet anyone! Instead
of focusing on the importance of WINNING and being successful,
they are concerned instead on "not losing" and keeping their self-
esteem intact.
But it's exactly this kind of timid approach that turns women
OFF and insures your failure with them. Women can smell your
fear -- it's as unmistakable as an open sewer! And it screams:
Low Status Male.
Bottom Line: when it comes to scoring with women, like
gambling, you will lose far more often than you win. THIS IS
HOW THE DAMN GAME IS DESIGNED!!! Understand
something here: the *losses* are the payment for the win -- NOT
the "wager" that you make with your self-esteem. I repeat... you
pay for your future winnings with the losses, not with the risk to
your ego that you feel you're taking. Keep this in mind because,
if you're losing on a regular basis with women, it could be that by
protecting your most valuable asset (your ego) you're preventing
yourself from laying down a bet with the REAL currency that the
Game demands... i.e., a string of setup losses.
You see, the guy playing with scared money doesn't
understand that the gamblers' thrill of winning far exceeds the
agony of the losses it took to get there. Dominant males win at
the game of seduction because they NEVER play with Scared
Money...
And neither should you!
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Want to know a pivotal secret of the mating & dating game? It's
that women plan, practice and prepare for this contest from a
very young age, and (surprise!) are flat-out *contemptuous* of
those men who refuse to play their expected role.
Sad but true. Women put countless hours into prepping for the
competition between the sexes... hair, makeup, style and look,
clothing, etc. etc. They burn half their disposable income on just
about anything they can dream up that makes them more
attractive to men. Guys, on the other hand, typically put minimal
effort into making themselves attractive to women... other than
trying to stay within shouting distance of the latest clothing trend,
I suppose. For the most part, they choose to spend their time
involved in sports or hobbies. That's because most of us figure
attractiveness in men has to do mostly with good looks and
money -- beyond that the workings of the female mind are totally
unfathomable. So why even waste time pondering it?
Except that this lack of knowledge eventually returns to bite us
square in the ass!
How? When we attempt to PICK UP WOMEN -- *that's* when
our utter cluelessness becomes horribly apparent! Women
have been studying boys since they were teenagers. While
we're out playing video games and practicing our foul shooting --
they're getting together and debating flirting strategies with their
girlfriends, figuring out how to communicate to all the cute boys
using body language, etc. etc. In other words, they're actually
putting some *effort* into the process! They're learning how to
play the game of seduction from their own unique female
perspective, and they are becoming BETTER at it every day.
Not only does our lack of knowledge put us at a distinct
disadvantage, it acts as a complete TURN-OFF to a lot of
women. This is especially true of women who've REALLY
polished their skills to a high level. They hate guys who try to
fake their way through the meeting and seduction process. And
they can smell a phoney from far across a crowded room, trust
me.
Can you see now why you might be having so much trouble
determining what women want from guys? You can't be good at
something that you've put so little effort into becoming practiced
at! There's no shame in lacking any of these skills either. The
Art of Seduction does NOT come naturally to anyone -- we all
must strive to observe women and try to really understand how
they're reacting to our presentation of ourselves as men. And
then comes the hard part... we have to LEARN FROM THE
FEEDBACK (mistakes!) and make the appropriate changes in
our behaviors to get the results we're after.
This is where a lot of guys goof up. Learn ? Change? Blaaah!
Because we're all fundamentally lazy by nature, we just want to
settle as quickly as possible on some kind of "move" that works
for us (at least once in a while) and then just WORK IT TO
DEATH. I guess this beats practicing and modifying our
behaviors based upon what we see, feel and -- well... all that
other friggin' WORK!
Well, this approach might pan out okay guys who have great
natural attractors working for them... a handsome face, great
athletic body, the offbeat "artist's" personality or whatever -- but
there's a lot of shy, ordinary men who lack the natural ability to
meet women simply because they failed to develop any 'game'.
For *them*, the best route to success lies in learning how to take
on women in their own home court. And where's that?...
In the deepest recesses of the female subconscious.
=========================================
Mike Pilinski is the author of "Without Embarrassment: The
Social Coward's Totally Fearless Seduction System"... a unique
method of meeting girls that will have you making up for wasted
time spent living in shy-guy hell from the very first moment you
test it out. Check it Out Here => http://www.highstatusmale.com
Contrary to what you see every week on 'Sex and the City',
women are the complete opposite of men in that, the more
*anonymous* the sexual encounter, the LESS gratifying they find
it to be. Unlike the fictional uber-slut Miranda, satisfying sex
does not begin and end with the quest to find someone new to
have an orgasm with. For the vast majority of women, the
MORE connected they feel to their partner, the more
overwhelming the total sexual experience is for them.
Just the reverse of typical male thinking, right? Men are intensely
turned on by the thought of having sex with a woman for that very
FIRST time, or by scoring a one-night stand with a perfect
stranger, or perhaps fantasizing about being in a porno movie
and having wanton sex with dozens of hot women he hardly
knows. The common link between all these scenarios is that
there is NO emotional bonding involved. Hell, there's hardly even
an exchange of names! For the man, the more anonymous the
sex the more *exciting* the idea of the conquest.
How the two genders make use of (and even exploit) this
knowledge of each other's romantic weakness, however, is an
entirely DIFFERENT story.
Women know exactly how to turn men on by manipulating this
hardwired 'quirk' in their character that absolves them of the
need to actually know anything about a woman who has
triggered his desire to mate. How? Simply by pushing this
uniquely male "anonymous sex" button long and often... by acting
sexy AND remaining emotionally aloof at the same time. The
stripper, the table dancer, the whore. The molten hot stranger.
Any persona will do -- and all are quite useful when their design
is seduction!
Men, on the other hand, seem mostly clueless about how to turn
the tables and pull off the same trick. In fact, the prevailing
feeling is that female lust is such a mysterious and unfathomable
'holy grail' so rarely encountered in real life that it's taken on a
kind of mythical quality. I guess some women just have it for
certain men... and not for others, and there's no understanding
the reasons why.
But can female lust be triggered by the deliberate actions of a
man? I say absolutely yes. Women get sexually turned on just
as men do of course, but -- owing to differences in reproductive
biology -- by a completely different set of mental processes. Men
go for a VISUAL look that suggests youthfulness and thus fertility.
But females aren't interested in a man's age so much because
males remain virile well into the later part of their lifespan.
What they look for, instead, are signs of male POWER.
You see, women possess a deeply-rooted pre-intellectual
*instinct* which compels them to submit themselves for
copulation in the presence of what they sense to be a
DOMINANT MALE. They cannot help feeling like this -- despite
the fact that the modern woman manages to suppress the urge
to act on these feelings most of the time (but, not always...). So
when a man learns how to project the most subtlest of gestures,
actions and attitudes that suggest he's a "dominant male", he
can force a woman's subconscious mating desires to become
aroused WHETHER SHE LIKES IT OR NOT.
And some of them won't like it a bit. She may get upset
because you've forced her to experience a potent feeling which
she may feel compelled to conceal with the workings of her more
rational mind. And yet when a woman consents to have sex
with a man who has set off these automatic desires in her, she
stands to enter into the hottest, most fulfilling sensual experience
that it is possible for her to have. And she knows it.
...AND she's also frightened of it -- because once unleashed in
this way, it can be difficult to stem the cascade of all-consuming
passion. She risks taking the kind of social and romantic
chance that only happens a precious few times in her life. Can
she allow herself to become addicted to a man who can make
her see stars?
By learning to adopt the actions and attitudes of the dominant
male, it is possible to create these sort of emotional
disturbances in women at will. Almost any girl that you can
manage to talk to in a SPECIFIC sort of way can have her "lust
triggers" ignited like a blow torch. And when the ability to seduce
becomes more a skill than mere luck, your chances of suffering
the humiliation of being rejected vanish too. Now you have done
more than learned to act the part of a dominant male, you have
*become* one. And truthfully, there's no real difference.
Because in this game, acting is BEING.
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Maybe there's something to be said for going out with your
buddies to work the bars and pick up women, but notice how
rarely it ever actually seems to succeed? Girls go to the clubs
in groups for safety and to make it difficult for all but the most
aggressive males to pluck them away from their circle of friends
and make a powerful first impression. But it puzzles me as to
why GUYS feel they need to run in packs the same way.
Do you draw confidence from your male comrades in a club
situation? Does the competitive spirit make you better? Or are
you even MORE afraid to take a chance with a critical audience
of snickering baboons watching your every move (AND screw
up)? You probably don't know what the hell you're doing when it
comes to approaching women TO BEGIN WITH... will somehow
demonstrating this humiliating deficiency of your male skills in
front of your goofball buddies make it any better?
Understand this: most of your genuine chances to pick up
women won't ever happen when you're out with the boys in a bar
-- there are far too many distractions and way too much
competition for her attention. This is a situation where no one
but the most VISUALLY OBVIOUS DOMINANT MALE among the
crowd has any advantage. Most women in this 'party mode' are
only there to drink and dance and act nutty anyway. Only the
most top dog male in the joint has any prospect of breaking
through this goofy ‘fun trance' and getting a rise from his
suggestive behavior. You? You're just the sort of invisible
shmuck she completely ignores; nothing but background clutter.
The same way that you ignore all the fat chicks in the crowd and
focus in on only the hottest looking babes. Right?
Your 'modus operandi' has to be completely different.
In order to keep a safety zone around your fragile ego, a complex
NON-verbal interplay must occur before you can ever speak any
words to her with confidence. This takes time and requires a
situation where the two of you can focus at least some
*attention* on one another without having the trance broken by
other people around you (preferably strangers, and not engaged
in doing anything particularly important i.e., like library readers for
instance). The very same girl that would immediately brush you
off in a bar can be wide open to your advances in AN ENTIRELY
DIFFERENT SITUATION -- one where you can monopolize her
attention. That's why you must always keep your antennae out
and be looking for opportunities in the most unlikely of situations!
In any case, the absolute WORSE situation for trying to meet
women happens at some wild event where her guard is up like a
silver cross to ward off all the drunken losers suddenly "full" of
liquid courage (low status males). You'll do *much better* when
you learn how to establish a bit of playful, unspoken
communication in places where her guard is DOWN and you
have a chance to disarm her with your male presence and
charm. It's really not all that difficult once you understand that
what she needs to see from you is just one little sign of
Dominant Male behavior.
The good news... you can easily learn how to *fake* the most
key HSM (High Status Male) attitudes until they become second
nature!
Seductions are a lot like *sporting contests* in that you never
know what unforeseen twists and turns may happen on your way
to victory. You can't allow yourself to be handcuffed by the need
to keep looking over your shoulder to make sure you're not doing
anything that will make you the butt of jokes and mockery from
your "crowd" for weeks to come. A lot of times, you'll have to
scrap the game plan and make changes to your technique on the
fly -- and these adjustments don't always fit the image of what
your leering buddies probably think is cool.
Look, don't play the loser's game of going out to work the clubs
with your "gang". Not when you're serious about hunting for
women, anyway. Bad experiences will only sap your confidence
and make it more difficult than ever to effectively play the "real"
game... the one where you try to win the desire of a beautiful
woman.
You know... the ONLY game that actually matters.
========================================== Mike Pilinski is the author of "Without Embarrassment: The
Social Coward's Totally Fearless Seduction System"... a unique
method of meeting girls that will have you making up for wasted
time spent living in shy-guy hell from the very first moment you
test it out. Check it Out Here => http://www.highstatusmale.com
I'll bet the following statement is true for any guy reading this
who doesn't do well with the ladies: You don't really understand
what it is you're doing WRONG that makes you so unattractive to
women... for the *exact same reason* that "Casanova" who
scores left and right with them doesn't understand what he's
doing RIGHT.
Huh? Read that again if you have to.
Both YOU and
Casanova are essentially clueless as to why you ended up the
way that you are in terms of your skill levels (or lack there of)
when it comes to charming and seducing women. Of course,
Mr. Casanova isn't unhappy about his situation, right? But you
sure are.
Theory Time: I believe that both sets of behaviors which lie
at opposite ends of the spectrum are the result of accidents that
occurred when you were both just beginning to notice girls in a
different light (sexually)... sheer random incidents which involved
elements of good or bad luck, and nothing more.
It went like this: YOUR first trial and error experiences
occurred with a girl that simply DIDN'T LIKE YOU (probably
because of personal issues that had nothing to do with you, but
so what?) You thus ended up with a completely negative
reinforcement of your early efforts at seduction and socialization.
This awkward and possibly *shameful* first try at romance
robbed you of the critical early confidence you needed to keep on
experimenting and practicing your skills. It kicked off a
descending spiral of inaccurate behaviors that led to more and
more failures with women as time passed, further stunting your
social development.
More failure resulted in a complete loss of confidence,
growing social ineptitude and a withdrawal from the game of
flirting and even attempting to seduce women. Your behavioral
changes might've progressed to episodes of delusional
thinking, dark fantasies, etc. In other words, your *character*
changed to make it even less likely that you could successfully
interact with women, and voila'... a "nerd" was born.
Casanova, on the other hand -- due to simple GOOD fortune
and nothing else -- may've tried the exact same moves during
his adolescence just as you did, but HE happened to choose a
girl that LIKED him, and therefore responded to his fumbling first
efforts favorably. Get the picture?... a positive reaction to the
exact same inept moves that you made! Merely because of
random good luck, he happened to choose to work a girl who
responded to him in an emotionally reinforcing way.
This "big break" (that you didn't get) gave Casanova
confidence AND positive social feedback -- which further
provided a laboratory to fine tune his behaviors. Perhaps he
even grew up in an environment that supported or encouraged
those initial experimental behaviors -- a supportive older
sister or a female friend that he could talk to in confidence
whenever he needed advice? Someone to make the female
psyche seem less mysterious and intimidating? You, on the
other hand, may've grown up in an all-male environment where
women seemed remote and unfathomable. Possibly your every
move in this arena was met with scorn or ridicule whenever you
actually tried to act, making you even more gun shy.
You learned to associate fear and paralysis with the idea of
courting a woman.
Anyway, here's my point: Your downward turn could've just
as easily have been an upward turn had your luck been good
instead of bad with those first experiences. I believe that this
element of LUCK is more pivotal in our lives that most of us
realize. The timing of the luck is critical. It sets the stage for
the interplay of key events upon which your self-image is
manufactured in fits and starts. You see, there is really no
fundamental difference between the Social Casanova and the
Social Coward. Both are simply the end result of being turned in
different directions at a critical point in their lives.
Stated differently, your current status as a social coward is
all "nurture" (or in your case, lack of it...) and NOT "nature". You
out there reading this trying to find some edge with women are
no more genetically programmed to fail socially than the
Casanova is to succeed... you both simply LEARNED how to do
it as you traveled along divergent social-life paths.
Think about it... What if that first nervous reach for affection
had gone differently? What if that first girl you ever asked out
had said yes and became your "girlfriend" instead of laughing in
your face and running off to tell her friends what a loser you
were? Imagine how your social skills and confidence would've
improved over the subsequent months and years if that time had
been spent in social interaction (good, bad or ugly) with women
instead of social isolation? It would've given you a whole
different concept of yourself and made you an entirely different
person than you are today.
And to think that it all turned on that one damned
UN-lucky
first break!
It's time to stop handing random chance the power to direct
your destiny. Time to make a course correction back into the
world of the living (and the socializing). There are techniques to
make it easier than you might think, but it all begins with a
decision not to let the faded echo of a long-ago negative event
continue to shape your life. And until you make that decision,
nothing will ever really change for you.
========================================= Fear Rejection No More! Learn how to act the way women
WANT you to act, and become the High Status Male they
dream about. Stop by and get your FREE 25 page Mini-Course
"The Three Keys To Seducing Any Woman", and lots more.
>>>> Official Author's Website <<<<
Click Here => http://www.highstatusmale.com
=========================================
I think you'll enjoy the information below from Mike Pilinski, author of 
It does so because it taps into an ancient instinct buried far within the recesses of her subconscious psyche --
one that tells her when it's time to mate.
Yes that's right, non-verbal. The way to reduce your fear of rejection is to remove from your mind the enormous pressure to perform in the face of uncertainty.
You do this by perfecting your Male Display to signal women around you that you are a man with a life's purpose -- that you are centered and able to deliver on the kind of emotions that all women desire from their romantic involvements... in a word, you are a man who's lived a
little!
And it shows. Now let the women begin to signal back their interest in
you, and you'll find yourself able to take action with an ease that is astonishing.
