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A
common beginner’s mistake during
a threesome
session is what I call the “What’s the rush”
syndrome.
After the
long wait most men are so excited about having two girls
in their bed that they lose perspective...
They feel they’re the “directors” and insist on showing
the way of the action, quickly taking the girls from one
act or position to the next in attempt to experience
"every aspect" of his fantasy in one single session. Mind
you, this is very short-sighted for many reasons…Guys, you
should keep the following points in mind:
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It’s silly
to try everything at once. A threesome is not a
Smorgasbord; it’s a seven-course meal. You have to savor
each course to the fullest and you’ll enjoy it more that
way than trying to fill your plate with a little bit of
this and a little bit of that.
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Bear in
mind that your invited friend can have a man any time
she wants one. She didn’t come for a penis, (sorry guys,
that’s just the way it is) she also came for the pussy.
No, I’m not saying that she wants to have the pussy.
However highly likely she is curious about experimenting
with a female and a threesome gives her a safe and
protected environment without having to think that her “lesbian”
desires are wrong. If the man is dominantly directing
the flow, the experience will become more of a pain than
a pleasure.
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The man
should allow himself to learn about how to really please
a woman. Make sure that you allow the women to exercise
their own pace and technique or intuition. Watch them
kiss, touch and speak to each other. Women make love to
each other how they WISH men would make love to them.
Without the man interposing his own needs, he can learn
what women really want.
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Your new
friend can find a new couple much easier than you can
recruit another woman. Allow her to do as she pleases
and give her whatever she wants. If you try to impose
your agenda on her pleasure, her search for paradise
certainly will take her elsewhere.
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The
evening will progress slower and will be more fun if the
man doesn’t attempt to become the recreational organizer
of the evening. The man should guide the women to each
other, watch more than participate, give more than take,
learn more than teach. This is the secret that will make
him be appreciated by the women and that will reward him
with more and more threesomes.
The
Most Important Ingredient for Success
You need to take
into consideration that a woman can get a
“wham-bam-thank-you-Ma’am” anytime she feels like it. She
doesn’t need you for that. What she’ll always appreciate
is the slow, tender love she is missing somewhere else.
Her main attraction to a threesome may be possibility of
having the soft tender attention she has always dreamt of.
The shy giggles; the long, lingering kisses; the soft,
tender touches; the gentle, probing investigation of
unexplored spaces; the tranquil discovery of unimagined
new pleasures; and the slow, building stimulation of a
real seduction.
My advice is to follow the female pace.
Remember your friend didn’t join you for a quickie. The
best method to make her come back is a long, candle-lit,
romantic evening with lots of sweet nothings, dabbling
caresses, prolonged kisses, relaxed cuddling and warm,
all-accepting shared love
(3).
One of the reasons females fantasize about other women is
because of the soft tender feelings they know females are
able to provide. An FFM
threesome
is the perfect opportunity for her to experience those
feelings without feeling uncomfortable about the fact that
she’s involved in “lesbian” behavior.
As I mentioned
earlier, most women are bi-curious. If you provide the
possibility of a non threatening experience, where she can
explore the soft and tender touch of another woman and the
warmth and strength of a man, she’ll be delighted.
Once and for all:
the real secret for successful
FFM threesome is
to focus on your friend,
not on your own pleasure. Your pleasure is a by-product of
providing pleasure to your friend.
An
FFM threesome
will always be
more enjoyable when seen as a selfless act of providing
pleasure to the invited friend. I’ve found that this type
of behavior also influences your love making as a couple.
Because your husband or steady partner, being aware of how
to deal with two women, he also learns how to deal better
with his own woman while you’re just by yourselves!
If you would like to know more about how to make make your
favourite sexual fantasy come true go to:
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